• What did you say?When was the last time you asked someone that or someone asked you?  Often, the asker has an assumption of what was
  • JL says she used to have an anaphylactic reaction to saying, “I’m sorry.” I have always been quick to say, “I’m sorry.” Yet, I realized that
  • “Let’s talk about avoiding conflict.” “I’d rather not.” Has your partner ever tried to have a conversation about avoiding conflict but couldn’t because you didn’t
  • “Here and now” is not always the place and time to have an important and difficult conversation.  When you have mutually agreed on a time
  • There are things out of your control. There are also things that are uncontrolled. It is vital to understand the difference. Where we were born,
  • JL attends coaching conferences for continuing education. Well, she did prior to 2020. The conferences have break out sessions during which coaches from various fields
  • Your feelings are not the voice of God.  They are an emotional reaction to the moment and can change in a heartbeat. Imagine you are
  • What Christmas present do you remember wanting the most as a kid? You had that specific system, game, doll, glove, bike or Hotwheels car that